Okay girl, let’s talk about the whole “princess” thing.
You’re dating this guy, things are going great, and suddenly he starts calling you “princess.”
What’s up with that?
Is he just trying to be cute, or is there some hidden meaning behind this royal nickname?
Well, as a relationship coach who’s seen it all, I’m here to break it down for you.
Here are 10 reasons why your boyfriend might be calling you princess:
1. He thinks you’re special
When a guy calls you princess, it’s often his way of saying, “You’re not like other girls.”
He sees you as unique, precious, and deserving of special treatment.
It’s like you’re royalty in his eyes, and he wants to treat you accordingly.
Aww, how sweet!
2. He wants to protect you
In fairy tales, princesses are often portrayed as delicate flowers who need to be protected by brave knights.
By calling you princess, your boyfriend might be tapping into that archetype.
He wants to be your knight in shining armor, ready to slay dragons (or just squash spiders) for you.
It’s his way of saying, “I’ve got your back, babe.”
3. He’s trying to be romantic
Let’s face it, some guys aren’t the best with words.
Calling you princess might be your boyfriend’s attempt at being romantic and showing his affection.
Sure, it’s a little cheesy, but cut him some slack.
He’s trying!
4. He’s a fan of pet names
Some couples are all about the pet names.
If your boyfriend is constantly calling you things like “baby,” “sweetheart,” and “honey,” then “princess” might just be another nickname to add to the rotation.
It doesn’t necessarily mean anything deep – he just likes having a cute name for you.
5. He’s being a little ironic
Okay, sometimes guys use “princess” in a slightly sarcastic way.
If you’re acting a bit high-maintenance or demanding, he might call you princess as a gentle way of poking fun at your behavior.
It’s like saying, “Okay, your highness, I’ll get right on that.”
Don’t take it too seriously – just laugh it off and move on.
6. He’s referencing a shared joke
Maybe you guys have an inside joke about princesses.
Or maybe there was that one time you drunkenly belted out “Part of Your World” at karaoke.
Whatever the context, calling you princess might be his way of referencing a funny moment or shared memory between the two of you.
Adorable!
7. He’s subconsciously influenced by media
From Disney movies to celebrity culture, we’re surrounded by images of princesses.
It’s possible your boyfriend has absorbed some of those influences without even realizing it.
Calling you princess might just be a result of all that subliminal messaging.
Thanks a lot, Cinderella!
8. He’s boosting your confidence
For some girls, being called princess makes them feel special and adored.
Your boyfriend might be using the nickname as a way to boost your self-esteem and make you feel like a million bucks.
He wants you to know that you deserve to be treated like royalty, both by him and by yourself.
9. He’s following societal scripts
Let’s get real for a second: there are certain gendered scripts in our society that dictate how men and women “should” behave in relationships.
Calling you princess might be your boyfriend’s way of performing his role as the “chivalrous man” who puts his “delicate lady” on a pedestal.
It’s not necessarily a bad thing, but it’s worth examining those scripts and making sure they align with your values.
10. He just thinks it’s cute
At the end of the day, maybe your boyfriend just thinks “princess” is a cute pet name.
It’s short, sweet, and a little bit silly – what’s not to like?
Don’t overthink it too much.
If you like the nickname, embrace it!
If not, just gently let him know you prefer something else.
The Bottom Line
So there you have it, my dear – 10 possible reasons why your boyfriend is calling you princess.
The truth is, only he knows for sure what his motivations are.
But if you’re curious (or if the nickname is bugging you), just ask him about it!
Chances are, it’s coming from a place of affection and not some weird power trip.
At the end of the day, a healthy relationship is all about open communication.
If something your partner says or does rubs you the wrong way, speak up!
A good boyfriend will be more than happy to adjust his behavior to make you feel comfortable and respected.
And if he’s not willing to do that… well, then maybe it’s time to find a new prince charming.
Remember: you’re the queen of your own life.
Don’t let anyone treat you like a damsel in distress.
Stand up for yourself, know your worth, and demand the respect you deserve – both from your partner and from yourself.
You’ve got this, princess!
I’m Sarah Koch, and I work as a Relationship Coach in Austin, Texas. I’ve been doing this job for more than 9 years. I studied Sociology and Counseling Psychology at the University of Texas at Austin. My main goal is to help people create strong and happy relationships. I also wrote a book called “Irresistible Texting” to share my ideas on how to have better relationships through texting.
