When someone asks you “What do you like about me?”
it can catch you off guard. You may draw a blank or worry your response sounds cliché.
This common question has arose on many first dates or in new relationships. Fortunately, many clever answers can keep the mood fun while showing you care.
What Do You Like About Me?
Funny and Playful Comebacks to “What Do You Like About Me”
Humor relieves tension and brings you closer. With the right touch, comedy reveals affection and connection. Here are some lively replies:
“You have all the best snacks in your pantry.” Keep things breezy while implying you feel at home together.
“Your laugh is contagious.” Celebrate their personality.
“Your memes are always on point.” Applaud their humor.
“Your dog likes me.” Use pets to say you belong together.
“We agree that pineapples don’t belong on pizza.” Bond over shared tastes.
“You make the best pancakes.” Flatter their cooking.
“You pretend not to know the words when I sing show tunes.” Support their silly side.
“You know all the TikTok dances.” Embrace their goofier hobbies.
“You actually think my jokes are funny.” Thank them for getting your sense of humor.
“You wore matching Halloween costumes with me.” Show you don’t take yourself too seriously.
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Thoughtful and Caring Responses to “What Do You Like About Me”
While humor has its place, you also want to reveal emotional intimacy. Thoughtful replies demonstrate affection, respect, understanding, and care for who they uniquely are. Consider these loving answers:
“I admire your courage to be yourself, your style, your hobbies — you inspires me to keep being me.” Applaud their authenticity.
“Your passion for helping others and volunteering.” Praise their altruism if relevant.
“You work hard at everything you do.” Salute their motivation and determination.
“Your smiles lights up any room you enter.” Describe the joy they spread.
“You take time to listen and understand me.” Value emotional intimacy.
“I love exploring new places with you.” Bond over shared adventures.
“You encourage me to keep learning and growing.” Thank them for spurring your self-improvement.
“You make me want to be my best self.” Explain how they inspire you.
“I treasure late night conversations under the stars where we dream out loud together.” Cherish meaningful talks envisioning the future.
“You see the wonder and beauty in ordinary moments.” Compliment how they mindfully savor life’s simple pleasures.
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How to Respond to “What Do You Like About Me? From a Girl
I like how you always make me laugh with your jokes and stories.
I like how you are kind and caring to everyone, even strangers and animals.
I like how you are passionate and curious about the things you love, like music, art, or sports.
I like how you are confident and brave, but also humble and respectful.
I like how you are supportive and encouraging of my goals and dreams.
I like how you are honest and loyal, and always keep your promises.
I like how you are fun and adventurous, and always up for trying new things.
I like how you are smart and creative, and always have interesting ideas and insights.
I like how you are beautiful and stylish, but also natural and authentic.
I like how you are sweet and romantic, but also playful and flirty.
How to Respond to “What Do You Like About Me? From a Boy
I like how you make me laugh with your jokes and stories.
I like how you always support me and encourage me to pursue my goals.
I like how you are honest and loyal to me and our relationship.
I like how you are adventurous and willing to try new things with me.
I like how you are respectful and thoughtful of my feelings and opinions.
I like how you are smart and curious about the world and always eager to learn something new.
I like how you are caring and compassionate towards others and always ready to help someone in need.
I like how you are confident and assertive in yourself and your abilities, but also humble and modest when appropriate.
I like how you are passionate and enthusiastic about your hobbies and interests, and how you share them with me.
I like how you are handsome and attractive, but also have a great personality that shines through.
When and How to Reply “What I Like About You Is…”
Before offering responses, consider the context and approach. Reflect on why they asked for feedback and how to make them feel secure.
They Seek Affirmation and Reassurance
Sometimes people fish for compliments out of shyness, doubt, or insecurity. Reassure them.
Reply gently and emphasize positives that reinforce their great qualities. Give specific, meaningful praise.
They Want Emotional Intimacy and Understanding
Alternatively, this question can signal readiness for deeper connection.
Respond by lovingly sharing something vulnerable or quirky you admire. Describe unique strengths.
Discover Their Love Languages
People feel cared for in different ways. Notice what makes them light up.
Some love words of affirmation while others want quality time. Adjust replies to their preferences.
When Someone Requests Feedback, I Upgrade My Response
Rather than reply off the cuff, I consider my words carefully when someone says “What do you like about me?”
I understand this signals insecurity or hope for greater intimacy. They deserve thoughtful, uplifting responses.
Before answering, I reflect on their wonderful qualities that inspire me to be better too. I focus on emotional needs behind their request.
Then I share meaningful praise, humor, or visions for our future based on what I know comforts them. I give feedback that makes them feel secure, understood, and loved.
I’m Sarah Koch, and I work as a Relationship Coach in Austin, Texas. I’ve been doing this job for more than 9 years. I studied Sociology and Counseling Psychology at the University of Texas at Austin. My main goal is to help people create strong and happy relationships. I also wrote a book called “Irresistible Texting” to share my ideas on how to have better relationships through texting.
