You’ve had a fantastic date, the chemistry was off the charts, and you finally locked lips in a passionate embrace.
But now you’re wondering… did he ACTUALLY enjoy kissing you?
Was it fireworks and butterflies for him too, or more of a “meh” experience?
Don’t worry, I’ve been there!
Trying to decipher a guy’s post-kiss behavior can be like solving a Rubik’s cube blindfolded.
But fear not, I’m here to help you crack the code and figure out if your smooch left him weak in the knees or running for the hills.
1. He Keeps Coming Back for More
One of the most obvious signs that a guy enjoyed kissing you is if he keeps diving in for more!
If he’s constantly finding excuses to plant one on you, whether it’s a quick peck or a full-on makeout session, chances are he’s REALLY into locking lips with you.
I mean, think about it – if kissing you was about as exciting as watching paint dry, would he really be so eager for round two (and three, and four…)? Probably not!
So if your guy is always ready for another smooch, take it as a clear indication that he’s digging your kissing skills.
2. He Gets Lost in the Moment
When a kiss is really amazing, it’s easy to get completely lost in the moment and forget about everything else.
If your guy seems totally focused on you and the kiss, closing his eyes and savoring every second, that’s a fantastic sign!
It means he’s not thinking about his grocery list, the game last night, or that weird sound his car was making – he’s 100% present with you and loving every minute of your liplock.
Bonus points if he lets out a little moan or sigh of contentment – that’s a dead giveaway that you’re rocking his world with your kissing prowess.
3. His Body Language is Screaming “YES!”
A guy’s body language can tell you A LOT about how he feels, especially when it comes to kissing.
If he’s really into it, he’ll likely pull you closer, run his hands through your hair, or gently caress your face or back.
These little touches are his way of showing you how much he’s enjoying the moment and craving that physical connection with you.
On the other hand, if his body language seems stiff, uncomfortable, or he’s pulling away, that’s not a great sign. It could mean he’s not feeling the spark or just isn’t that into kissing you. Ouch!
Pay attention to how his body responds to your kiss – it’ll give you some valuable clues about his level of enthusiasm.
4. He’s Smiling Like a Fool
You know that goofy, ear-to-ear grin guys get when they’re REALLY happy? If he’s flashing that megawatt smile after kissing you, it’s a dead giveaway that he loved every second of it!
A post-kiss smile is his way of saying “Wow, that was amazing!” without actually uttering a word.
It’s like his face is screaming “I just hit the jackpot!” and he can’t contain his joy.
So if you catch him grinning like a fool after your lip-lock, give yourself a pat on the back – you just rocked his world with your killer kissing skills.
5. He’s All About the Eye Contact
They say the eyes are the windows to the soul, and that’s especially true when it comes to kissing.
If your guy is gazing deeply into your eyes before, during, or after the kiss, it’s a surefire sign that he’s feeling a strong connection with you.
That intense eye contact is his way of drinking you in and savoring the intimate moment you’re sharing.
On the flip side, if he’s averting his eyes, looking around the room, or seems distracted, it could be a red flag that he’s not fully present or invested in the kiss.
So pay attention to where his eyes are at – if they’re locked on you, chances are he’s digging the lip action.
6. He’s Complimenting Your Kissing Skills
If your guy straight-up TELLS you that you’re an amazing kisser, believe him!
Most men aren’t going to say something like that unless they really mean it. It’s a vulnerable thing to admit, so if he’s willing to put it out there, it’s a clear sign that you’ve impressed the hell out of him with your smooching abilities.
He might say something like “Wow, that was incredible” or “You’re such a good kisser” – whatever the exact words, if he’s verbalizing his appreciation for your kiss, take it as a huge compliment and a definite green light that he enjoyed himself.
7. He’s Initiating Round Two (And Three, And Four…)
Remember how we talked about him coming back for more kisses? Well, if he’s the one initiating those repeat performances, that’s an even BETTER sign that he can’t get enough of your sweet, sweet lip action.
If he’s finding excuses to pull you in close and plant one on you again and again, whether it’s later that night or the next time you see each other, he’s basically screaming from the rooftops that kissing you is his new favorite hobby.
And really, who can blame him? If you’ve got kissing skills that leave him weak in the knees, of COURSE he’s going to want an encore (or five).
So if your guy keeps coming back for more, rest assured – he’s DEFINITELY enjoying kissing you and can’t wait for your next lip-lock.
8. He’s a Little Bit Dazed and Disoriented
Have you ever had a kiss SO mind-blowing that you felt dizzy and disoriented afterwards?
If your guy seems a bit spaced-out, starry-eyed, or just generally out of it after kissing you, congrats – you’ve officially blown his mind!
When a kiss is THAT good, it can be hard to come back down to earth and focus on mundane things like walking in a straight line or forming coherent sentences.
So if he’s stumbling around like a lovestruck zombie, mumbling nonsense, or just gazing off into the distance with a dopey grin on his face, take it as the highest compliment – you’ve left him completely dazed and amazed with your kissing skills.
9. He’s All About the Afterglow
The moments right after a kiss can be VERY telling in terms of how much he enjoyed it.
If he lingers close to you, savoring the moment and basking in the afterglow, that’s a fantastic sign that he’s on cloud nine and doesn’t want the magic to end.
He might rest his forehead against yours, nuzzle your nose, or just hold you close – whatever the specifics, if he’s all about prolonging that post-kiss bliss, it means he REALLY enjoyed locking lips with you.
On the other hand, if he’s quick to pull away, jump up and leave, or just generally seems eager to move on from the moment, it could be a sign that the kiss wasn’t quite as earth-shattering for him as it was for you. Womp womp.
10. He Can’t Stop Talking About It
If your kiss left a serious impression on your guy, he won’t be able to shut up about it!
Whether he’s texting you later to say how much he enjoyed it, bringing it up the next time you hang out, or just randomly mentioning it in conversation, if he’s STILL talking about your kiss days or even weeks later, you KNOW it was memorable for all the right reasons.
When a guy can’t stop thinking about a particular kiss, it means you’ve officially branded yourself onto his brain (and his lips!) in the best possible way.
So if he keeps bringing it up and reliving the moment over and over again, congratulations – you’ve officially knocked his socks off and left him craving more of your sweet, sweet kisses.
Pucker Up, Buttercup!
At the end of the day, trying to figure out if a guy enjoyed kissing you can feel like a total guessing game.
But if you pay attention to his body language, his words, and his overall vibe, you’ll start to get a pretty clear picture of whether your lip-lock was a hit or a miss.
And remember – even if you don’t see EVERY single one of these signs, that doesn’t necessarily mean he didn’t enjoy kissing you! Every guy is different, and some might be more subtle or reserved in showing their enthusiasm.
The most important thing is that YOU feel good about the kiss and had a blast locking lips with your cutie.
At the end of the day, a kiss is a two-way street – so if you’re feeling the sparks and the magic, chances are he is too!
So pucker up, buttercup – with these clues under your belt, you’ll be able to read your guy’s post-kiss behavior like a pro and know for SURE whether your smooch was a touchdown or a total flop.
Happy kissing! IYKYK 🙂
I’m Sarah Koch, and I work as a Relationship Coach in Austin, Texas. I’ve been doing this job for more than 9 years. I studied Sociology and Counseling Psychology at the University of Texas at Austin. My main goal is to help people create strong and happy relationships. I also wrote a book called “Irresistible Texting” to share my ideas on how to have better relationships through texting.
