It all started a few years ago when my buddy Ryan asked me for advice after matching with a girl on Tinder…
She had texted him saying “your eyes are gorgeous😍” and he had no idea how to respond. After helping Ryan craft the perfect message back, he ended up dating that girl for over a year!
Since then, tons of friends have come to me for flirty text advice. I decided to put together this definitive guide on responding when girls compliment you over text.
Here, You’ll discover my top 30 flirty, funny, and savvy responses to use when a girl sends you a compliment over text. I’ll also explain when and why these responses work, so you can apply them for maximum impact.
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Here are 30 witty, flirty responses to use:
- Why thank you! Your smile’s not so bad either 😉
- Wow, I might just have to take you out now
- Glad you noticed…what else do you like about me?
- Aww shucks 😅 thanks beautiful
- I do have nice eyes don’t I. Goes well with the rest of my good looks 😉
- You’re making me blush over here!
- I bet you say that to all the guys 😛
- Well aren’t you sweet…just don’t stare too long or you might fall in love 😂
- I gotta say, you have nice eyes yourself
- Is that your way of asking me out? Because I accept 😁
- Careful now, keep talking like that and I might just sweep you off your feet
- Why thank you m’lady ❤️ tips fedora
- I was blessed with good genetics what can I say ̄_(ツ)_/ ̄
- Glad you think so highly of me already. Maybe we should grab dinner and get to know each other more?
- You know what else is gorgeous? You.
- Why Miss, never has someone made me swoon with so few words before. You have rendered me powerless with your silver tongue!
- Hair flip What can I say, I moisturize.
- Well thanks! You don’t look so bad yourself 😉
- Need me to send you an autographed headshot for your bedroom wall?
- If you think that’s nice, just wait til you see the rest of me 😉
- I do pull off the smoldering gaze quite well don’t I
- Stop it you’re making me blush! Tell me more about what you find so gorgeous…
- It’s my mom’s genetics, but thanks 🙂 Maybe we could meet up and you can compliment me in person?
- I guess someone has noticed my best ASSet hehe
- Why thank you gorgeous! Maybe we should test out how compatible we are over dinner sometime soon? 😉
- You think that’s nice? Just wait til you see these guns flex emoji
- Well aren’t you observant 😉 yeah my eyes are my best feature, the ladies seem to love em
- Aww thanks! You seem to know how to make a guy feel special 🙂
- Hair flip I do take pride in my luscious locks and sparkling eyes, thanks for noticing babe!
- Why thank you sweetness! Let’s see if your looks match that silver tongue of yours 😉
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Funny Responses to Use When a Girl Compliments You
A funny or playful response is great for keeping things lighthearted and building attraction. Laughing together helps you bond.
When using humor, make sure to keep it innocent. You don’t want to come across as rude or make her uncomfortable.
Here are some funny ways to respond when she compliments your looks over text:
Sarcastic Compliments
Gently poking fun at her compliment is an easy way to be funny. Just don’t overdo it!
Aww thanks gorgeous! But just so you know, flattery will get you everywhere 😉
Wowww, look who knows how to sweet talk a guy! Should I be blushing right now?
Sorry, I don’t give out autographs before the first date
I bet you say that to all the teenage heartthrobs 😉
Also Read: How to Reply When Someone Says “I’m Proud of You”: Flirty And Witty Responses
Playful Banter
Some back and forth banter lets her know you can take a joke. But don’t get too carried away teasing each other!
What can I say, I was blessed with beauty and brains 💁♂️
Careful I might start thinking you actually like me!
Stop you’re going to make me get a big head!
Hitting on me already? Geez buy a guy dinner first why dont ya!
Funny GIFs or Memes
Sending a funny GIF or meme in response to her compliment shows you have a playful personality:
- send hair flip GIF
- send “Oh stop it, you!” meme
- send blushing emoji meme
Savage Responses (Use With Caution!)
Savage or sassy responses show confidence and make her laugh. But take care not to cross the line into rude territory!
These tend to work best once you already have some rapport built up. Use sparingly at first.
Here are some examples of savage ways to respond to compliments over text:
Sarcastic
You just realizing this now? 😝
Yup, yup, I know 😉
Wowww big compliment coming from you!
Exaggerated Arrogance
I mean was there ever any doubt?
Of course they are, have you SEEN this hair?!
Beauty, brains, humor…what CAN’T I do 💁🏻♂️
Also Read: How to Respond To “I Don’t Love You Anymore” 30+ Responses
Playful Insults
ONLY use these if you already have an established playful, teasing dynamic:
You need to get your vision checked but thanks 😜
Someone’s got a crushhh
I’d blush if I wasn’t so used to it
The key with savage responses is walking that fine line between funny and offensive. Make sure you have enough comfort built first!
Top 10 Editor’s Choice Responses
After helping countless guys text girls, I’ve noticed some responses that almost always work. These are my “editor’s choice” flirty texts to use when she compliments you.
1. Reverse the Compliment
Turning the compliment back on her builds attraction and connection.
For example:
Compliment: Wow you have the nicest eyes! ❤️
Response: Thanks gorgeous! You have beautiful eyes yourself 😍 Maybe we could stare into each other’s over dinner sometime?
This tactic takes the pressure off you and makes her feel special too. But don’t just copy a generic “you too” response or it may look lazy. Make sure to customize it based on what she said.
When to Use:
- Early on when building attraction
- You want to share the spotlight
When NOT to Use:
- She gave a creative, personalized compliment
- You want to accept the glory
2. Question About Her Interest
Asking about her attraction level or intent turns up the tension in a subtle way.
For example:
Compliment: Omg 😍 looking good!
Response: What can I say, I clean up nice 😉 What is it you find so attractive exactly? My charm? Wit? Rugged good looks? 😛
This builds intrigue and gets her thinking about why specifically she likes you. It also hints that you might like her back.
When to Use:
- You suspect she wants more than friendship
- You want to subtly flirt back
When NOT to Use:
- She was just being friendly, not flirty
- You don’t want to encourage her interest
3. Humble Appreciation
If you want to take the sincere route, respond with humble gratitude:
For example:
Compliment: Handsome fella you are 😏
Response: Aww, that’s so kind of you to say! 😊 Made my day…you’re pretty cute yourself!
This heartfelt response avoids arrogance or corny pick-up lines. It’s great for showing you’re down-to-earth and appreciate her words.
When to Use This:
- You want to build a meaningful connection
- She seems like a sincere, trusting person
When NOT to Use:
- You think she wants witty banter over sincerity
- She uses a lot sarcasm or teasing
4. Give a Nickname
Assigning a cute nickname builds affection and intimacy quickly. Just don’t pick something too outlandish early on.
For example:
Compliment: Did it hurt when you fell from heaven ? Because damn !😍😘
Response: You sure know how to make a guy blush, angel face 🥰 Maybe I could think up a cute nickname for you too over some coffee?
This shows you appreciate her compliment and reciprocate interest in getting to know her better. But don’t force a nickname if you can’t think of one naturally. Use sparingly at first.
When to Use This:
- She used an obvious pick-up line
- You want to subtly flirt
When NOT to Use:
- It’s too early for intimate nicknames
- You barely know anything about her
5. Charming Pick-Up Line
Firing back a cheesy or charming pick-up line shows you speak her flirty language.
For example:
Compliment: Omg I love your smile 😁 so cute!
Response: Why thank you m’lady! Care to see if my smile still makes your heart skip a beat over dinner Friday night? 😉😁
This plays with her tone in a fun way. Just avoid anything too sexual or vulgar. Save those racy pick-up lines for once you know each other better!
When to Use This:
- She used a cheesy pick up line first
- You want to jokingly flirt back
When NOT to Use:
- You think she wants a serious response
- You don’t know her sense of humor enough
6. Challenge Her
Turning it into a playful challenge makes responding active and memorable:
For example:
Compliment: You’re literally the cutest guy I’ve seen all day 😍
Response: Oh really? I bet you can’t last a whole date with me without blushing at least once! How about we put that to the test over dinner Friday night? 😋
This flips the dynamic from you chasing her to her needing to prove herself to you. Just don’t come across overly arrogant. Add some vulnerability about liking her back.
When to Use This:
- She seems competitive or sassy
- You want to pique her interest
When NOT to Use:
- She prefers humble guys
- You come across as “too cool” already
7. Funny GIF
Sending a reaction GIF like a silly dance or bashful emoji face conveys your response in a humorous light.
For example:
Compliment: Nice shirt, it really brings out your eyes 👀
Response: send funny “Aww shucks” GIF
This shows you appreciate her compliment while keeping things breezy.
When to Use This:
- You want a simple but effective response
- She seems to enjoy laughing and internet humor
When NOT to Use:
- She prefers words over media reactions
- You over-rely on GIFs in your convo
8. “Prove it” Challenge
Asking her to prove her compliment spikes sexual tension and anticipation. But ONLY use this if she already seems very interested in you physically and you have some rapport built already.
For example:
Compliment: You could be a Baywatch lifeguard with a bod like that 😉
Response: Oh could I now? Guess you’ll just have to see for yourself on Saturday night…sound good? 😋
This turns up the heat in a deliciously tempting way. But make sure you have enough mutual attraction already or else you risk coming across creepy or full of yourself. This can be very effective when timed right.
When to Use This:
- She’s already sending sexual vibes/innuendos
- You’re both clearly interested in each other
When NOT to Use:
- It’s a new match or she seems unsure still
- Her compliment wasn’t sexual
9. Role Play
Pretending she’s your girlfriend, wife or secret admirer helps progress things without being too direct:
For example:
Compliment: Lookin good babe 😘
Response: Why thank you beautiful wife 🥰 Shouldn’t you be working right now instead checking me out though? 😝
Role playing creates stories that pull her into imagining potential relationship scenarios with you in a fun, lighthearted way.
When to Use This:
- She called you “babe”, “handsome” etc. first
- You want to hint at relationship potential
When NOT to Use:
- You just met recently
- She seems hesitant about rushing things
10. Proposal Joke
Making an exaggerated joke about marrying her or running away together turns up the romance in an absurd way she can’t take totally seriously:
For example:
Compliment: Hot stuff coming through!! 🔥🥵
Response: Marry me? We can run away to Vegas tonight! 😍 Then you can compliment me every day for the rest of our lives, party animal! 🎉😆
Proposing in an over-the-top, fanciful way allows you to say something intimate without the awkwardness of sincerity. This tactic works if she has some interest in you already typically.
When to Use This:
- You want to hint at romantic interest with humor
- She seems infatuated already
When NOT to Use:
- You worry it could confuse or mislead her
- She might take it too seriously
There you have it – 10 of my top editor’s choice responses when she compliments your looks over text. Use these for smooth, effective flirting tailored exactly to her message.
Now let’s get into some additional examples for broader situations…
How to Respond to a Girl’s Compliment Over Text
Girls express interest and attraction in different ways. Some are more direct while others start subtle.
But regardless how obvious her compliment is, you want to respond in a way that keeps her intrigued.
Here are some examples of how to reply when a girl compliments you through text, depending on the situation:
If She Compliments Your Appearance
When she calls you handsome, hot, cute etc. turning it around on her builds intrigue:
Compliment: Lookin good handsome! 😍
Response: Why thanks gorgeous! Though I gotta say you make me look pretty plain in comparison 😅
Flipping the script challenges her and hints you might be interested too. Just avoid sounding too cocky.
If She Uses Cheesy Pick Up Lines
Leaning into the cheesiness with some playful banter is perfect when she breaks out pick up lines:
Compliment: Do you have a map? ‘Cause honey I keep getting lost in your eyes
Response: I think you need the map, looks like you’ve already wandered deeply into my heart’s territory 😜 least you can do is join me for dinner!
Don’t be afraid to get silly if she goes the corny route! But avoid anything vulgar or crass.
If She Compliments Your Intelligence
When she compliments your smarts or savviness, assure her you find that attractive in return:
Compliment: Wow you gave some really insightful opinions in class today, I like smart guys 🥰
Response: Why thanks! I’m into smart girls too you know. Nothing sexier than brains and ambition 😉 We should study together sometime so I can admire your intellect up close!
Making it flirty gives her the green light to keep expressing interest. Just avoid sounding like you’re bragging.
If She Compliments Your Talents
When she admires your natural talents like music, athletics etc. invite her into your world:
Compliment: Damn, you jam on that guitar! When’s your next show? 🎸🤘
Response: Thanks gorgeous! I’m playing at the Red Room this Friday actually. You should tag along as my VIP guest. I’ll serenade you with a song 😘🎶
This makes her feel special while letting her see more of your life. But don’t force it if that’s not realistic or comfortable for you early on.
Don’t Stress, Just Have Fun!
While it’s exciting to get a compliment over text from someone you like, try not to stress over responding “perfectly.” At the end of the day, this person already likes what they see in you so far!
The most attractive thing is having fun, being at ease with yourself, and focusing having an enjoyable, lighthearted connection.
So take the pressure off! Just be your charming self.
Now you’ve got 30+ examples for witty, charming ways to respond when she compliments your looks over text.
You can apply these word-for-word or adapt them based on her unique message.
Next time your phone lights up with a flirty text about your cute smile or sexy arms, you’ll be prepared. Have some fun with it!
I’m Sarah Koch, and I work as a Relationship Coach in Austin, Texas. I’ve been doing this job for more than 9 years. I studied Sociology and Counseling Psychology at the University of Texas at Austin. My main goal is to help people create strong and happy relationships. I also wrote a book called “Irresistible Texting” to share my ideas on how to have better relationships through texting.
