12 Marriage Quotes for Couples Struggling to Stay Together

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Sarah Koch

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I see you, scrolling through your phone with one eye on the screen and another on the towering pile of laundry that just won’t quit. You’re tired, frustrated, and maybe… a teeny bit worried about your relationship. It’s okay; we’ve all been there. Marriage isn’t always a walk in the park. Sometimes, it feels like a hike up Mount Everest—in flip-flops.

Welcome to the club. I’m Sarah Koch, your unofficial guide to navigating the surprisingly complicated world of relationships. Today, we’re going to delve into some quotes that might just bring that much-needed spark back into your marriage. Why quotes, you ask? Because sometimes, a few well-chosen words can pack a punch bigger than a ten-page self-help book. So grab a coffee, or wine (no judgment here), and let’s dive right in.

1. “A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.” —Mignon McLaughlin

It’s like the ultimate romantic yo-yo, right? Up, down, in love, out of love… but always with the same person. Remember the early days? When you’d stare dreamily at each other and not at your phones? Go reclaim that! Plan date nights, send each other cheesy texts, and play that dumb song you both used to love.

2. “A great marriage is not when the ‘perfect couple’ comes together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.” —Dave Meurer

Guess what? There’s no “perfect couple.” Even Beyoncé probably gets annoyed at Jay-Z sometimes. (Shocking, I know.) The trick is to not just tolerate each other’s quirks but to actually enjoy them. So your partner leaves dirty dishes in the sink? Maybe they balance that out by making you laugh when you most need it.

3. “The best thing to hold onto in life is each other.” —Audrey Hepburn

If anyone knew a thing or two about romance, it was Audrey. In the storm of life, when everything is going bananas, holding onto your partner can sometimes be the only sane move. So next time the world feels like it’s crashing down, wrap your arms around your spouse and ride it out together.

4. “Marriage is not just spiritual communion, it is also remembering to take out the trash.” —Joyce Brothers

Ah, the trash. The eternal argument. If I had a dollar for every time a couple fought over this, I’d be on a private island right now. But here’s the thing: Marriage is a balance of spiritual harmony and mundane tasks. Can’t have one without the other, folks.

5. “Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads, which sew people together through the years.” —Simone Signoret

Think of your marriage like a quilt, each thread representing a shared memory, a joke, a rough patch you survived. While grand gestures are great, it’s these tiny threads that keep everything snug and cozy. So don’t stress if you’re not pulling off a Nicholas Sparks novel every day.

6. “A happy marriage is the union of two good forgivers.” —Ruth Bell Graham

Okay, real talk time: Forgiveness is the cornerstone of any lasting relationship. Unless you’re some kind of perfect human (ugh, show-off), you’re going to mess up. And so is your partner. Learn to kiss and make up, literally and figuratively.

7. “The greatest marriages are built on teamwork. A mutual respect, a healthy dose of admiration, and a never-ending portion of love and grace.” —Fawn Weaver

Teamwork makes the dream work, right? Well, it makes the marriage work too. You’ve got to be each other’s cheerleaders, therapists, and sometimes, even each other’s cooks and cleaners. It’s an all-hands-on-deck situation, and you both need to be invested.

8. “Love is not something you feel. It is something you do.” —David Wilkerson

Love isn’t always those gushy feelings and fireworks you see in rom-coms. Sometimes, it’s doing the dishes when your partner is exhausted or listening to their rant about work for the hundredth time. It’s action, baby.

9. “Coming together is a beginning; keeping together is progress; working together is success.” —Henry Ford

No, you’re not building a car (although, wouldn’t that be a fun project?), but Henry Ford’s sentiment still applies. Meeting was the easy part; staying together takes effort, and working together leads to that ultimate goal: a fulfilling, long-lasting relationship.

10. “The goal in marriage is not to think alike, but to think together.” —Robert C. Dodds

Take this one to heart. You don’t need to become clones of each other. Seriously, how boring would that be? It’s about combining your unique viewpoints to solve problems and create a life that works for both of you.

11. “Marriages, like a garden, take time to grow. But the harvest is rich unto those who patiently and tenderly care for the ground.” —Darlene Schacht

Gardening analogy alert! But hear me out. Just as you wouldn’t neglect a garden for months and expect a bountiful harvest, you can’t disregard your marriage and expect it to thrive.

12. “Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength while loving someone deeply gives you courage.” —Lao Tzu

This one is all about balance: Loving and being loved. Each feeds into the other. Allow yourself to be vulnerable and strong. It’s a yin and yang kind of deal.

Why These Quotes Matter

You may be thinking, “Okay, Sarah, cool quotes, but why should I care?” Well, the magic of these quotes isn’t just in their words but in what they inspire us to do. Sometimes, hearing (or reading) something from a fresh perspective can snap you out of a rut faster than my dog jets across the room when he hears the word “treat.”

The Reality of Struggle

Let’s face it—every marriage hits rough patches. If you could eavesdrop on your neighbors, you’d probably realize that the Joneses aren’t doing any better. We’ve been conditioned by glossy social media feeds and rom-com movies to believe that marriage should always be 100% blissful. Well, news flash: it’s not.

Taking Small Steps

Rome wasn’t built in a day, and neither is a strong marriage. Start small. Celebrate the little victories, like getting through a week without an argument or successfully navigating a difficult discussion. Each of these small steps builds a path to a healthier relationship.

Pause for Self-Reflection

Take a moment to reflect. (Yes, like RIGHT NOW.) Are you being the partner you want to be? If you find areas for improvement, don’t beat yourself up. Use that energy to make positive changes.

Simple Actions You Can Take

Alright, ready for some actionable steps? Here we go:

Communication is Key

I know you’ve heard this a bajillion times, but cliches exist for a reason. Talk it out. And I don’t mean “How was your day?” followed by a grunt. Set aside time to have deep, meaningful conversations.

Date Like You Mean It

Schedule regular date nights. They don’t have to be extravagant. Even a walk in the park or a movie night at home can do wonders.

Show Appreciation

Tell your partner you appreciate them. Leave little notes, send texts, or just say it out loud. It takes so little effort and can mean so much.

Seek Help if Needed

There’s no shame in seeking professional help. Sometimes an unbiased third party can help you see perspectives you hadn’t considered.

Activities Together

Take up an activity you both enjoy. Whether it’s cooking classes, hiking, or even binge-watching a series together, shared activities can strengthen your bond.

The Power of Humor

Laugh together. Watch a comedy, tell jokes, or reminisce about funny moments. Humor is a powerful tool for connection.

Pop Culture References to Keep You Motivated

Remember Monica and Chandler from Friends? They had their quirks, fought like cats and dogs sometimes, but they worked it out. Or what about Jim and Pam from The Office? They started from scratch, built a life together, and kept each other grounded. If these (albeit fictional) couples can manage, so can we!

The Real Deal

Life isn’t a fairy tale, and marriage certainly isn’t always a honeymoon. But it’s the mundane, the struggles, the laughs, and even the tears that make it rich and rewarding. So yes, go forth, armed with these quotes, and sprinkle some wisdom into your life.

But hey, why stop here? Share your own favorite quotes, anecdotes, or survival tips in the comments. Let’s turn this into a cozy, supportive corner of the internet where everyone’s working together to make their relationships better, one day at a time.

Conclusion: Love Hard, Fight Fair, Laugh Often

There you have it—12 quotes to keep your marital boat afloat. Remember, it’s okay to seek help, to have off days, and to occasionally feel like throwing a pillow at your spouse’s head. What matters is that you keep coming back, keep trying, and keep loving.